To Like or Not to Love
Those days, I have a lot of
question in my little head. Most of them are related to my relation with
others. I find that, relationships are so complicated. Why? Because each person
in the world have different way of been and seen life. This thing changes the
way you see relationship. If we take friendship as an example, the way you
identify someone like a friend might not be the same to the person next to you.
And, even with my 16 years of experiences, I still don’t know how I might call
friend. However, I still got my little idea of what are relationships. Let’s
discover it together.
Like I say above, the way you
see a person like a friend have a lot a chance to change from a person to and
other. For some person, a friend is only a person with who you have fun and
enjoy the time you pass with him, and for others, it might be a person how you
can talk with, without being judge. I thinking about three type of friend, even
if there is much more than that, an even more type of relationship.
1-
The School Friend
Those kinds of friend are the
one you enjoy being with… but only at school. A lot of student can be a school
friend. It’s the kind of person you love being with, but you don’t want to see
them otherwise than school. They are, for me, the lowest friendship you can
have with someone. And I experience it, a lot of time. During the begging of my
secondary (middle school), I spend my time with people that I never enjoy a
lot. Yes, they where nice guys, but not enough for me. They were talking of
subject I never liked. Even this year, I have the felling that I live in a
completely different world compare to other people I spend time with. I’m like
a secondary, or even a thirdly friend, and… I’m almost invisible to them when I
don’t go see them. Those are school friend.
2-
The Good and Nice Friend
Those are, from what I think,
the most common form of friend. It’s like the guy that walk in the school and always
have a big smile on his face when he see you. The kind of person you always
what to see and be with, wherever you are. Sure, everyone have some period of
there life they want to spent alone. Otherwise then that, a good and nice
friend is the average friend that everybody like. The kind of person ta say Hi
to someone every 2 seconds. A person you enjoy being with, that you see some
time out off school, make party with, or go shopping. From my point of view,
those kind of friends are still not enough. I need something more, with someone
to consider them has my real friend. However, with my level of sociability, the
good a nice friend is a nice and good person, and I like them.
3-
The Family Friend
Everyone has heard, at lest
one time in there life ‘’you are like the big brother (or sister) I never
had’’. This is a family friend. Someone how trust you enough and that like you
enough to add you at his own family. I find that kind of relation so nice, it’s
not just a friend that call your bro one in a wild, it’s someone that what you
to by part of his family. I don’t know what happen in the human brain to
provoke those kind of relation, but I’m sure it take more than one or two
mouths to arrive at this kind of trust to each other. And more of that, this
relation have to be from the two side. If you are friend with someone, he might
not be the same things that he is thinking of you. But when someone tell you
The sentence (see above), it’s because the relation is already very good
between each other. I never experience that kind of relation, but… I think this
is the best relation you can have with someone.
That’s what finish my post on
friend. Like I say before, all person are different, and, how you feel about
someone might not be the same for that person. I show you three type of friend
I identify, but there is some more.
I Think that… It is not
important to know how your friend or your best is, just enjoy all the time you
pass with them and stop thinking about your live, just relax and have fun.
i think the same
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